Sunday, January 31, 2010


Okay so I just wanted to rant about Hollywood. I hate it. I mean, it's not like I don't have paparazzi. I do. Most of the time. Maybe oceanUP can't find it but I know it's somewhere on the web. I've had one guy try to take a photo.. Down my shirt. If that isn't violating my personal bubble. Than what is? I've had guys follow me into the bathroom and try to take shots. I know it's much worse for others. And I can only imagine their fury when they read this rant - because it can be so much worse. And I'm afraid that it will only get worse. I'm scared. London was great. Who knew there would be so much paparazzi? Yeah. I'm so sick and tired of being afraid to leave the house without my Mom or someone. I'm sick and tired of picking up the phone and having my friend afraid because someones creeping them out. I'm so sick and tired of people POSING as my friends from Texas and back home. They have a normal life. But they have, NO more privacy, NO more personal myspaces, NO more walking the streets unknown. They have to pay consquences for being my friends. I don't think that's very fair. Especially for Nolan. He has HATERS. WTF. Just because he's interested in the same gender as his own?! Really. Call me pathetic but I think that he deserves more respect than the respect he's getting. Same with ALL my other friends.

Hollywood puts a great deal of pressure on you. And to be honest, when I was in London I didn't want to come back. And if I did go back, it was because I needed Miley and she needed me. If I wasnt under schedual, when she was hurting I would be there faster than you can say my name. There's hater's at every corner. There's hypocrites, critics etc; and it really breaks my heart completely when I see or hear people look down on me. What have I done to ya'll? Absolutely nothing. You have no rights to be judging me like im a piece of garbage! I know how I am, I know who I used to be, I know what I wear, what I do, who I do it with, who I hang out with. That's all MY life. And I LOVE it. I'm caught up in this web of hate and hater's all around me, pointing their finger at me.

I have Mom's screaming down my throat because of the guy's ive dated and the decisions I made for MYSELF in MY LIFE. And I love being a role model, but I dont like people copying me like i'm just someone you can look at, with no emotions and no heart. I have a body, I have a heart, I have everything you do except I have my own personality & orginiality. I'm sorry if you dont but you can't just look down on me because of who I am and who I choose to be. And if you dont like that, or who I AM as a PERSON, which you wouldn't know anyway because most haters have never even MET me. But anyways, if you dont like that then tell you kid that! Because I will not just change because you tell me to. I have MY OWN MOM who tell's me things. And I love her, and support her just the way she loves and supports me!

AND she approves of who I am! Which means I dont give a shit if you do or dont! Having my mother support me is big enough for me. Having my friends love me is big enough. Having my boyfirneds, who loved me is big enough. So you can back off. And I know ya'll wont. So you guys CAN keep on hating. Just know I WONT listen..

And haha, im sorry guys! I'm writing this blog like im yelling at the reader! :P . No, im not. Unless your any of those things I mentioned. Back to Hollywood.

Why have I pretty much STOPPED tweeting or at least, reduced tweeting on ddlovato. If you show any slight emotion on one tweet, all of a sudden there's a secret meaning. No. It is what I write. And maybe it does have a secret meaning. But most likely, the meaning is not towards those who you think they're towards.

In this rode of life, I've lost respect and love of others - while they go on and give it to someone else. I'm fine with that. It's your life. It's not a crime.

Okay so now, im switching to Hollywood's side of "Selena, Taylor, Demi and Miley."
WTF. Kay, what's so wrong with "ask taylor?" K. Ill awnser that question.
Me and Selena barely talk. Ever. If we do, it's a short "hey" or something like that. Half the time I dont know if we're frenemies or just friends or just enemies. And I avoid that drama. If she goes and bitche's at me, I will cause something. But she hasn't. So to be honest, I dont even know where me and her are at. But all I know is, if I dont even know, how does the rest of the world? Yeah. Right! That's NOT how it works. And as for Taylor. I really dont think anything is going on. To be honest with the whole situation, me and Selena were like sisters. Tried to be together. This and that. Thing's didnt get that simple anymore and we drifted apart. She found Taylor, and I found Miley. I litterally LOVED Miley at "hello" litterally. We talked for a bit and BAM. Just like that, texting, boy talks, girl talks, random talks, pointless talks. We started calling each other. Hanging out. And we love each other. We're the best of friends. She's my BESTEST friend. And if anybody has a problem speak out, I need someone to bitch out on anyway.

And a lot of people claim she changed me. Fu. Just because I've chosen to be myself now i've changed? No. No and once again no I wouldn't let anyone change me. And if I did, I knew they would only make me better. And for Taylor and Sel, I know they're best friends! And I think that's great! We've both moved on and I litterally love that. I mean, I know Taylor was there to take care of Sel through all her break ups, when she has breakdowns . And I really appreciate and respect her for that. That's great! Believe it or not I do have the same heart as I did in Texas. And I still have a piece of Sel Love in me. And I will always love Sel! Just because we're... whatever we are? Doesn't mean I've stopped. We just have difficulties and we've stopped trying. And I pray we haven't lost respect for each other. There is no feaud. Just drama and stuff like that. So ya'll can calm the hormones!

So I said ask taylor. Instead of asking me about Sel, I wont know. So ask Taylor. Because she will! <3

That it, i'm not going to bitch out on this blog post any longer. Plus my fingers hurt from texting on my cellphone. So... love love love. <3

Peace! Demi! LOVE! <3 (;


  1. Yea, i have never had a life like that...surrounded by paparazzi. But i know one thing, it's not a great feeling if someone hates u..with or without a reason. and i deeply doubt anyone who hates u even knows u. I dont know you, but i also don't hate u. I look up to you. In my eyes ur a strong girl who fights for her dreams! And that's a big thing!
    I saw u in my dreams the other night..and u were so caring and nice there. And even tho it was just a dream, i know you're the same sweet in real life.. coz i see how much u care of ur friends and stand up for them! Your are true friend. And anyone would love to know you. So, i dont understand how could ever hate you..or hate Miley or any other celebrity or any other person.. i dont get it..

    Im happy for you that u and Miles met and became such a great friends in a second:D I totally KNOW wt it feels like. You just say hey and you just KNOW inside that it's gonna be something big. I had the same thing with my besty. After our first talk i KNOW she would change my life and she'll be my very best friend. And she was. And even tho she passed away a month after our first chat, she'll always be in my heart..she's my special girl, no.1. We knew a month, but it felt like million years. She knew me better than anybody else, and i knew her. She supported me, she was always here for me. She was a true friend.
    So, it makes me happy to see that you and Miley have grown so close and you are always there for each other. And as you said sometimes friends grow together, sometimes u and Sel. it's okay..coz it's life. It wa supposed to go that way. I have grown apart with my childhood friends..sometimes i miss them, but i have new very close friends in my life..and i know everybody's happy :)

    Well, seems like im blogging here.i always write too much:S
    i just wanted to tell you that i understand u..and i support u.and wanted to tell u i sometimes have some similar problems/situations as u..
    it's life. Though i know yours is most of the time way harder. And that makes me look up to you even more. Demi, you're a rly nice girl(:

  2. I wish you would go public and tell the people about that stuff cause they're making up the WEIRDEST stories. :(